Okay, it’s only 7.5 hour’s a week, but it’s still a milestone for Sophie. Up until now she’s been tagging along with me and watching her big sister run off to Kindi and now school. Now it’s her turn!
From 9pm on Thursday morning she was asking me every five minutes, ‘Is it time for Kindi yet?’. We’d dropped Charli off happily at school (with her Star Wars Trump cards for ‘News’) and headed down to Lyall Bay. Thankfully, it was a gorgeous day. We visited our favourite little surf cafe and then played at the playground and beach. Sophie continued to ask… ‘When will it be time for Kindi?’, ‘We don’t want to miss it!’, ‘We need to pack my lunch box!’…
Finally 12.30pm rolled around and we were there, super prompt, for the 12.45pm start. Sophie was so proud of herself. She was eager to walk in carrying her own backpack and looking ever so ‘Little Miss Independent’, but she did confess, ‘Well, I am a little bit nervous’.

It felt great to be back at Kindi. The teacher’s are so warm, friendly and understanding and the environment is wonderful. The indoor, outdoor flow and proximity to the sea gives it such natural aura. Frequently the sound of the waves can be heard sweeping up on the nearby shore, just a short 5 minute stroll away.
Sophie couldn’t wait to find her locker. ‘I belong here!’ was written all over her face as she neatly stowed away her bag and surveyed the assortment of activities at her finger-tips.

First stop was the play dough table. We were soon joined by other children. Sophie and I set to task quickly getting to know names and making friends, in between rolling, squashing and cutting dough.
For both Sophie and I this was all pretty easy. Though she felt a little nervous there was no clinging onto my hand or hiding behind my knees. We’d been here before. Some of the parents were already well known to me, as they had children now in Charli’s class at school and were now settling their younger children into Kindi. Phew! Quite a different scene to when Charli started, bless her, not easy being the oldest child at times (I know!).
When ‘Circle time’ was called Sophie walked onto the mat with only a little hesitation. She joined in the songs before feeling a little overwhelmed and sitting down to watch. There were quite a few children settling in and crying for their Mummies, which naturally made Sophie feel a little concerned and if I could have put a bubble thought to her head it would have read, ‘What the heck is going on here!’. Nevertheless, she coped admirably and was excited when a little girl was asked to take Sophie’s hand and lead her out to play.
The rest of the session was spent painting, playing in the sand-pit (where she told me, ‘I love Kindi!’ – sweet words to my ears!), swinging and climbing. Sophie worked hard to make friends and was a real trooper. In fact, she was so happy that I happily helped the teacher’s out with a task or two on their long ‘to do’ lists.
I’m so looking forward to spending more time at Kindi with Sophie this term and being able to help out.
The day wasn’t over though. It was time to pick Charli up from school and I was very much hoping she’d be a happier lass. Thankfully, the weather had been kind and she’d been out cross-country running! This was her first time and she LOVED it! The whole school participated and they’ll be running every day (weather dependent). The running course sounded extremely exciting, ‘Mummy, we have a real rain forest by our school! We ran through it and the very long grass. There was even a waterfall. And there was no gorse!’
She was so much happier than her first day. However, I did have to carry her to the car-park as she was so physically tired – but I’d rather that than have her bouncing off the walls with pent up frustration! Once home, and a good drink and feed, she was beautiful. There was a calmness about her that wasn’t there on her first day.
So, the first week of the term was over – only two day’s as Friday was Waitangi Day! I’m so grateful for the gentle lead in and will feel a lot more positive when Monday morning comes round. For the time being, we’re having a fabulous, long weekend!






I’m glad to read that you’ve all had such a positive day. Great that Charli enjoyed her running, it sounds as if it’s done her the world of good. I’m sure that things will continue to improve though of course there will be days when things don’t go as well. It’s only natural, but focus on the good times and hey another day is only a sleep away.
Yah! Charli got a certificate for ‘Excellence in Athletics’ today – she’s well chuffed! Settling in quickly now and we’re all adjusting back to the routine.
Hello our darlings,big and small….sounds as though you have had a great week and all going great in the new class Charlotte and so good to hear you had a great run time last week. Can’t wait to hear all news about next week. Also so good to hear you, Sophie, enjoyed Kindi so much and have had such a fun time. Grandma and Granddad look forward to so much fun news about what you both have been doing next week…..we can’t wait !! Enjoy all you do and help mummy and daddy too…they are wonderful too !! We have posted some bits and bobs to you both and so glad you are enjoying all you do.Grandma and Granddad have been very busy clearing the snow from the paths….and also having fun throwing snowballs at each other !!!…send you some pictures very soon of our garden full of snow and the tree you love to play under…now no leaves on it so not such a hide away tree !!
Awww, thanks folks! Will keep checking the mail-box! Love that you’ve been getting out and having fun in the snow! Tee hee!
Lovely post! i love SJ’s big hat…where did you get that??!
Right now you should be going wild in town….hope it was fun?!
I am glad to hear SJ and Charli are enjoying life. And of course making it easier for you to. Its a difficult one thats for sure. A path I am dreading, a path I looked at in my diary just today with a screwed up face and that low feeling in my heart.
Keep up the good work, but don’t fuss too much. Your girls need strength and strong persuation too to become independent.
Lots of love as always xxxxx
Thanks lovey. We’re settling back into the routine now and it’s all good. But me not fuss – impossible! I was born with the ‘worry gene’ (you know there really is such a thing – New Scientist wrote an article on it – so it has to be true! – but I’m learning to control it – ha, ha, slowly!).
One thing I don’t worry about is them becoming independent – I can see that strength in them already – Charli had it from birth and Sophie’s going to climbing Mt Cook the way she’s in training – that lass has seriously springs in her knees!
As for the hat – it’s from OZ – perfect for NZ’s harsh sun and Welly’s strong winds!
Sarah x
Wow, big girl now. That first day at kindi sounds fine. Glad it all went well. And, that Charlie loved the cross country – she’ll be an athlete yet!
JT
Yep, life’s settling down again into a routine – getting there!